I Slept With All Kinds Of Men For 3 Years

And that's what I learned about them...

Calm down, calm down, calm down — Before you add all sorts of adjectives to my persona, I must say that you are mistaken about me. Okay, I know that I sleep with a lot of guys out there, but that has nothing to do with it. After all, if a man who goes out with several girls is a “stud”, why would I as a woman be any different? Lol.

But seriously now, have you never heard that variety is the spice of life? Well, I believed in it so much that I even decided to season my life with lots of wasabi and pepper to make it hotter than an erupting volcano — And you’ll understand more about that now, hehe.

So, to cut to the chase, it wasn’t like I took three years of my life and said, “Oh, I don’t know, I’m going to fuck every type of guy out there.” Sure, it was a tempting idea, but I don’t think it’s for me, lol.

What really happened is that from the age of 24 to 27 I lost myself a little about who I really should be, and in this “Russian roulette of emotions” I ended up getting into several types of relationships, I met several people, I learned a lot about many things, mainly the differences between the various types of men I have been in relationships with.

For example, younger boys have a lot of energy, but they lack experience.

Hold on, let me rephrase that before some 22-year-old “Enzo” comes to torment me here in the comments, lol.

Imagine buying a brand-new sports car: fast, shiny, and full of energy, but with zero experience on the road. That’s how young men are. Their energy is infectious, and their willingness to try new things is commendable. However, they lacked that mischief that only comes with age. You see, there was one particular night with a guy who looked like he’d stepped straight out of gym class — he had endless stamina, but his dancing was a bit clumsy.

And you know what else? According to a study from the University of Montreal, younger men tend to be more physically active, which explains their energy, but they are also less emotionally experienced.

And if younger men are like sports cars, older men are like aged wines: exquisite, full of flavor, and with that sophistication that only time can give. And when I say older, I don’t mean guys in their 60s, but men in their 30s and 45s who have lived their lives well. For example, I went out with one who had a natural talent for creating romantic dinners and that got to me in a way. It was like he knew that the way to my heart was through my stomach, lol.

What’s more, their wisdom made up for any lack of vigor (not that they didn’t have it, but compared to 25-year-olds…) What’s more, according to Harvard Medical School, older men tend to be more emotionally stable and self-assured. In other words, no unfounded crises over Instagram likes.

By the way, I have to admit that this guy was really spectacular. He must have been 37 years old and he made me feel like a 20-year-old woman again — I have to say that his charm and vigor were really different, lol.

And I must say, I’ve also had my fair share of fantasies about athletic men. You know, the kind that looks like they’ve stepped out of a sportswear commercial — Yeah, they’re a treat for anyone’s eyes. And their stamina? Well, it’s out of this world.

But well, our relationship didn’t work out very well. To tell you the truth, I think it was the shortest one — He liked to hike a lot and I’m not much of an exercise person, so it was like being in intensive training for me, lol.

But… what did I learn from all this?

You know, I’ve realized that each type of man has brought something unique to my life. The younger ones have taught me to enjoy the moment, the older ones have brought me wisdom, the athletic ones have challenged me physically, etc…

And what’s more, I realized that a lot of who we are is based on the people around us. For example, I hate soccer, but when I was dating one of the younger guys, he made me fall in love with a team there that I can’t even remember the name of anymore.

Another thing to note is that even the “older” guys have a certain impressive vigor, especially when combined with the life experiences they have already had.

That said, I can say that what matters most is not the age of the person you are dating, but whether you get along with each other — And it was in this process that I found my “other half of the orange”. And I must say: in this case, I prefer the 37-year-olds, lol.